So, what is a women circle for you?

For me, a women’s circle is a safe and sacred space for women to come together, use their voices, be heard and be seen. Women throughout history have gathered in circles to empower each other and share wisdom. These affirming community gatherings help women get in touch with their feminine strength and turn up their positive vibration.
I have been leading women s circle for decades now and I have been watching a lot of magic happening.
But when one woman breaks the sacred, starts to gossip, lies or brings her violence or jealousy or hate to another woman at the heart of a circle, she is doing more than breaking a sacred space. She creates an unsafe circle for all the women inside.
A space where nobody is safe is not sacred anymore, and the circle is dead.
It just becomes a women s gathering, and oh god, here all the shit can happen! ….
So, being part of a sacred women s circle is a huge responsibility for the feminine, the community, the planet.
If you are not ready to open your heart, bring only the magic, be responsible and respectful, make a favor to others, don t join a circle
Cause you are not ready yet.
Few weeks ago, a woman who really doesn t like me, talked very badly about me in a circle where I was not present that night. She was upset with me. Her decision. Energetically, she is really dealing with something strong and painful for months now, and I guess I represent all her frustration and anger about it. So, she prepared herself, came and join the circle and started her gossip, lying about me, harassing two of my guests who were present at the circle.
It was not the place, and not the moment, but she decided to do it.
Obviously, all this deserve her completely. But for me, the unpleasant situation is not that someone lies about me, shit on me or speak badly about me. The sad situation is ONE woman using a sacred circle to try to destroy an other woman. THIS IS SO SAD
And that made me remember one of my closest girlfriend who is working with ONU bringing peace to the most conflict zones around the world told me one day:
“The most horrible things I saw in my life in the most violent areas are done by women. Women are the ones who are creating the most horrible wars and conflicts”
And I guess this makes sense. When a woman is in pain, the entire creation is in pain, and life suffers. A woman in pain can be the most cruel being on earth.
What do you think about that?
Did you experience the hate of a woman?

Sophie Hardy

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